Female Sexual Dysfunction

[livingwith]

Hello am a 42yr old afro Caribbean women who has been with my current partner for four years. Our sex life is dead and has been for most of the relationship on avg we have sex 1/8-10weeks. I am not sexually attracted to him but he is to me.
Recently I started working for a company and now I find myself looking at the men’s groin area this extends to the womens breast! I can’t help looking thier even though I am qute sick of myslef for doing so everyone at works know what am doing an...Read the full article

[R.D.]

I'm confused.

Are you saying that this new interest in staring at mens' crotches and womens' breasts causes sexual arousal for you, even though you're not sexually attracted to your own male partner?

If that is the case, you seem to be replacing him in your mind with the bodies of co-workers and strangers.