[jdp]

My husband and I have dealt with infertility for three years and after two miscarriages we decided to live a child free life. It was a difficult choice, but the emotional toll it took was at times unbearable.
My problem is I am unable to have any sexual relations with my husband. It has been quite some time, but cannot deal with the thought of it. People seem to think it was fun trying to conceive, obviously they had no clue what it is like, and dealing with all the testing and month after month. Is this normal and what can I do to get back to a sex life?

[UroDoc]

Been through it so I know about the stress and disappointment. I would see a counselor and work through the issue. Short of that if your concern is you might get pregnant then have your husband wear a condom. You might try a romantic weekend even at a local hotel, and perhaps a little wine or champagne to decrease your inhibitions, good luck