Premature Ejaculation

[livingwith]

well, i started doing penis exercises ( jelqin etc… ) but i had problems with the kegels ( pc exercises ) -
the problem was and is that i am having premature ejaculation . then i started making a research on the internet and found articles saying that kegels cause premature ejaculation . so i stoped doing it. although i found another website mentioning that kegels will make men ejaculating fastlty just at the begning, after some time it will certly delay men ejaculation. So my friends, wh...Read the full article

[gb521]

First and foremost, see a Urologist!! Don't trust the Internet entirely. Only a local doctor familiar with YOUR situation can give you truly accurate advice.

Remember, he's a doctor. he's probably seen or heard it all. So drop you "shame" (actually a form of pride) and tell him what's going on.

Now, my doctor told me that the majority of premature ejaculation problems are mental. He says that they are usually caused by "extra excitement" caused by situations surrounding the act, for example, an urge to get done quickly due to a perceived danger of getting caught.

After some serious discussions with my wife, we determined that making love in our house was a big stress problem - kids, kittens, telephone, "Let's get this done before Leno comes on", and so on. What we ended up doing was making a committed "date time" at least once a month -- more if we can afford it. Let grandma stay with the kids and the cats, and we take off to a Motel 6 Friday and Saturday, come home Sunday after church. Leave the cell phones at home; turn off the TV.

For us, that in itself was enough to cure the problem. Just providing one or two nights a month where we have NOTHING to do except make love -- slowly -- has cured the problem for the rest of the time!

You say nothing about your relationship with yout partner. My doctor also said that the stress of a non-committed relationship can be a big stressor. He claims that in his experience he has found that PE occurs more often in men who are single-and-dating, as opposed to men who are in a married or in a committed monogamous relationship. He got a little crude, and said, "There's just not enough time to ---- everything in sight." SO, you might want to examine your relationship(s) for "conquest" factor.

And if all else fails, my doctor says there ARE medications that can be used for this situation, medicines better than the "anti-sensitivity cremes" fond on the internet.

But please, dude, see a doctor! Your problem is not "shameful" (except maybe to you), you're not "sick", and you're not alone.

[KevinAn]

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Have a nice day
Kevin

[KevinAn]

Hi there. Kevin here.

The creams are not advised to use. They are causing a lot of problems.Some cause skin irritation, some cause so much numbness to the penis that you can't even feel aroused, some potions have off-putting smells and others just simply don't work.

There are other ways to solve your problem. I was suffering from premature mature ejaculation and did a lot of research online.

I found a free blog by Randy. I advice you to check it at
http://premature-ejaculation-exercise.blogspot.com/

He is also running a Facebook Group that you can discuss your issues.

Have a nice day
Kevin

[pety2]

You are so considerate to share your views. What I did not tell you is that I have been to the doctor in different times. He prescribed me some viagra which did not work at all . But when I take some beer with few cc of dry gin every thing becomes ok! the problem is that I am also victim of irritable bowl syndrome . When I drink, the pain in the bely is so sever. My love needs sex almost every day, if not at least in 3 days . But how could I drink in this frequency to be normal.

Things are very daunting