Premature Ejaculation

[Sparco]

I am 31 years of age working here the mid-east, dubai to be exact. can you help me with my problem regarding my ejaculation. I dont have any problem with erection and any disfunction when it comes to sex its just my partner needs a lot of time to reach her climax. I need to control my ejaculation in order satisfy her. I am a little worried about this because we just got married this year January. can you help to prolong or control my ejaculation.

Eager to hear your responses,

Thanks

[aunaturale]

Sparco - I just relocated to Dubai and based in Dubai, married male 40. y.o and having similar problems with early ejaculation. I have tried few exercises and control techniques which helped and will be glad to share with you. In fact I am seeking to connect with individuals/couples with similar problems in Dubai to support and help each other. Email me at [moderator note: e-mail address has been removed] and we can get in touch.

[hune]

Hello, I'm 39 and have the same problem. What I used to do was to perform lots of foreplay followed by oral sex to her until she was about to reach the climax and then I penetrated her gently and moved slowly until I couldn't take it any more. But men last longer in the second time. I considered once the idea of buying an artificial penis to attach to my body and continuing the sexual intercourse by making her feel the warmth of my body against her y sharing kisses to make her come. This is something you should talk to her to see if she agrees. I never tried it because my relationship ended long before discussing the subject. Maintain communication with your partner, get to know each other sexually, what she likes and how she feels about differents positions. My previous relationships were satisfactory for both of us despite my problem of premature ejaculation.

[Jrobbins]

Sparco,

I stumbled upon your topic while doing some research regarding Intersticial Cystitis, IC is a naturally occuring disease that can cause frequent urination due to bladder and urethra irritation. In my case it also is causing hyper sensitivity in the head of my penis, which ultimately causes pre-mature ejaculation. Diet is one of the most effective means of controlling IC, you may or may not have IC. But, you can do a simple test to find out and it may help with your problem. Follow an IC diet for a couple of weeks and see if makes a difference, if it does simply begin to introduce certain foods / drinks back into your diet one at a time to find out which one is causing the irritation. Here is a short breakdown of the Diet; None of the following: caffiene, chocolate, alcohol, multi vitamins, soda pop, and anything high in acid. That basically leaves: Milk, Water, Bread, Meat, Fish, Pork, Vegetables, Some Fruits (be careful with these) your almost better off cutting them out for a short period as well. You will notice a difference within a couple weeks, If it works awesome. If not what have you lost, a couple weeks without a bunch of crap you probably don't need anyways...lol

Oh yea, try to stay away from spices as well. Hot Sauce etc.. I struggle with that one and the coffee.

Good luck,

Justin

[Going_In_Circles]

Hi,
These are quick hints to manage;

1. You are still young and have lots of semen. Before planned sex by 1-1.5 hrs go and masturbate. This will help you to increase your endurance.

2.Use several condoms in top of each other to decrease sensation.

3.It is not a shame to use the sequeeze technique. It is very helpfull. It gives you lots of time to ejaculate.

[nuggyboy]

Some girls think it's a turn on when a guy cum earlier than expected but unfortunately, MOST girls find it annoying and unsatisfying. That is why guys with Premature Ejaculation (PE) problems are embarrassed to admit it to a girl. But what guys don't know is that PE happens to 30% of men and is 100% treatable. Instead of just hoping some girls might be turned on by PE, why not be 100% sure that she will be satisfied all the time if you can control your ejaculation?
I've ran across articles that I thought were interesting and maybe someone here will find it useful.
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[just_want_to_help]

hey there ,
Look i know how hard living with premature ejaculation can be because i suffered from it for 6 years. Iam 24 years old and had this problem since i was 18 until last year. I tried everything possible to be honest , so many product on the market i wasted my money on and so money painful and expensive techniques i have tried but with no success.
I've been in your position before. I know what it feels like to desperately want to satisfy a woman, but not being able to last long enough to do so.
I found a desensitizing spray and gave it a try but it numbed my penis and i didn't feel anything at all, but i thought i would go with it until the end and gf didn't mind neither. I inserted my penis in her and i didnt feel anything, it was so numbs i didnt even feel if I was in her or not. Now some people might say: so what? it doesn’t matter as long as the gf or the wifey is pleased , i mean how many times guys with pe had to cum and leave their gfs unsatisfied, so its time to return the favor. BUT GUESS WHAT? PE IS A BAD Curse. because if you dont feel any sensation around your penis you will loose erektion. which what happened to me. she kept trying to turn me on and get me excited but my D**K refused to get hard , so i cured my pe problem but developed an ed ( erectile dysfunction- when you cant get your penis hard) . and thats not the only problem , girls wouldn't like knowing your numb and not enjoying them. People always gave bad reviews for Desensitising sprays but that proved it right there for me.
few months later i tried the same spray again but this time . i tried a different dose , different way to apply , time of application and how long to leave it on. Then i went to have sex , for the first time in my life i went past 10 strokes, we had sex for a decent 45 minutes , i was covered in sweat with huuuuge smile on my face , i didn’t believe i finally found something that worked for me . since then every time i use the spray i average 30-60 minutes which is just amazing comparing to what i used to average before.
Look many people will criticize Desensitizing sprays but did you guys know that at the beginning of 2010 a new drug will hit the market and its a Desensitizing spray. Its all over the news, iam sure if you google it you will find it -tempe-. they have a great website , right now it passed phase three in both Europe and USA and they are looking for a approval from the fda so hopefully it will be in the market by 2010 so until then you can try the spray I tried , so if the fda is going to prove a Desensitizing spray for premature ejaculation it better be safe. Iam not allowed to say the name of the spray here because some forums wont allow that, so please if you need the name of the spray or how to use or how to get or even if you need any other information about PE or anything I can be of any help or just want to talk about how painful pe can don’t hesitate emailing me I been through this rough road and willing to help anybody I can help.

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Mike

[john247]

Can you supply the website or email address again?

[KevinAn]

Hi there. Kevin here.

There are other ways to solve your problem. I was suffering from premature mature ejaculation and did a lot of research online.

I found a free blog by Randy. I advise you to check it at
http://premature-ejaculation-exercise.blogspot.com/

He is also running a Facebook Group that you can discuss your issues.

Have a nice day
Kevin